How can a young stud meet a rich old lady?
An upscale gym or pool. A bookstore. My personal favorite: Mid-day shopping at Barneys, Bergdorfs, Neiman Marcus (no malls). Go a bit late, 1:30 – 2:00, when the ladies have already had a white wine or two, but before 4, when they’ve got to head back to the manse. Find someone to whom you are attracted (or it won’t work). Follow and watch a bit when she leaves the cafe. Look bemused, shaggy, curious, confident, in need of a real woman but not needy, and mix all that with a modulated display of respect — but not too much, you want to keep the chemistry, not become an employee or surrogate kid — and natural reserve. Strike up a conversation — that’s instinct, you’ll have to feel the moment and use what’s happening for your material. Watch her body language, for goodness’ sakes — eye contact, hair touching, suppressed smile, very telling. If you’re not vibing her interest, ditch the plan, try another day, another woman, do not not not press it. If you are vibing, don’t ask her for cof
Excuse me for choking…errrr it was the “25 to 39″ish range. Good luck on that! Most rich 25 year old women are not interested in younger, poorer men that they have to make over. What you want is someone in the “beginning to fade” range, that is about 35 plus. And never ever say “I’ve always been attracted to older women.” This makes you sound weirdly dysfunctional, in need of a mom. You can talk about the gap later IN fact you should take the opposite tack which will you make you sound normal and the woman especially desirable. “I’ve never been with anyone older, but there is something quite exceptional about you.” For what it’s worth: I’m 11 years older than my husband. Sadly I am not wealthy. So it is possible to be attracted to an older woman without the sugarmomma effect.
