How are we supposed to find a soul mate ina world of 6billion + people?
Soul mates are not found: they are chosen. And choosing one is a process, not a moment. Narrow down those six billion to six, those whom you find interesting or attractive in your immediate circle of acquaintances. Think about who they are, what they are like, what they need, and how (and why) you want to help them meet those needs. Once you have narrowed it down to six, begin to open up to them and show them who you are and what you like and need. One or two of them will probably respond in kind. Cultivate the caring on both sides. You might not find what you are looking for in the first half dozen. That’s okay; there are still six billion others to look at. Just keep up the process and eventually you will find someone who wants a soulmate as badly as you do. One caveat: your soulmate may not be the same person as your lover. Soulmates often are best friends, sometimes same sex and sometimes even siblings. In between reaching out six at a time, make a concerted effort to define what a
