Hello how can make my wife fall in love with me again?
What made her fall in love with you in the first place? Try recreating a little bit of that scenario. Romance her (but don’t try to do this when you know she is under a lot of stress or if the timing is bad . . . ); start with little stuff that you know will make her heart pitter and patter. Open up to her and let her know how you feel – do this a little bit every day. Be affectionate with her without pushing for more. Try to do more things together – things that you know you both enjoy doing. One of the best ways is to talk to her and communicate your feelings. If you feel you are drifting apart, talk to her about it. Be honest and let her know that you want to be closer to her. Ask for her input. Kudos to you on this – marriages (and relationships in general) take work and dedication. Not many people are willing to do what it takes to make them work. Good Luck to you!
you’re WIFE, or EX-wife? if your WIFE is no longer in love with you, there’s a reason. If you mean an ex-wife, forget about it. Do you guys have kids, or have gained weight over the years? Or one of you lost weight and is more attractive now to the opposite sex? Whether or not you can relate to any of these scenarios, the fact is that women need to feel special in order to be/stay in love… and that’s more than back rubs, etc. It means being emotionally connected to you. Find a way to reconnect, and she may fall back in love with you. Oh, and whether male or female, NEVER give everything you are to your spouse. Once you give up your identity as a spouse, there is no mystery left, and believe me — there is ALWAYS something you don’t know about your spouse no matter HOW many years you’ve been together. Most of what I learned over the years were little childhood things my hubby did to avoid doing extra work… and are hysterically funny… but they were stories he’d never told me befor
Well, it all depends on how long you’ve been married for; if you have children, how old are they now; and when, approximately, do you “think” she started fall out of love with you. You have to be honest with yourself here. If you’ve done something to put a strain on the relationship, acknowledge it and make strides to change that behavior.
Think back on the things you used to do and how you treated her when you were dating, update the ideas a little and go for it. Take her somewhere you used to go a lot when you were dating. Do little romantic things, flowers, make the coffee in the morning and bring her a cup in bed. Leave little notes for her around the house where she will find them that say I Love You.
