Have boyfriend & attracted to other men… confused?
Well just because we are in a serious long term relationship with an amazing person doesn’t stop us from being human. It is human to be attracted people other then your mate. It is human to get bored with routine. It is human to become complacent in our current relationships and seek out situations that are different. I think you have to have a serious talk with your boyfriend, especially about the bedroom thing. I bet he would like to spice things up too but feels awkward about it, so he pretends that he likes things just as they are. Ask him what his fantasies are. Do something different with him like go away for the weekend, that can add some romance. I bet when you first started dating your boyfriend you found him stimulating and fascinating, and if you leave him for this guy, the new guy will eventually become boring to you as well once you get used to him. Also I have found from personal experience that mysterious guys that challenge me usually turn out to be jerks in the end. (t
