Has the child disclosed that they are being bullied by another child in the childminders care?
YES – Your first responsibility is to listen to the child and be respectful of the fact that they have chosen to talk to you. Try to talk with them in a quiet place, as free as possible from interruption. Allow them to tell you their concerns at their own pace. Be aware that it may be very difficult for them to tell you their concerns, particularly if one of the other children involved is your own child. Reassure the child that they have done the right thing by coming to you, that you believe them and that you will make sure that the bullying will stop. Ask them what they want you to do. Ultimately, most children and young people who are experiencing bullying just want it to stop with as little fuss as possible. If they are concerned about retaliation then take this onboard and assure them that you will handle things sensitively. NO – If the child has told you that they are being bullied by a child outwith your care, your initial response is still vital. Follow the advice above about l
