Has anyone ever heard of or seen inappropriate behavior with fight attendants towards the pilot or copilot…?
If you live long enough, you will see anything. But aircrews are adult professionals whose minds are on their jobs, and exceptions to this are rare. “Inappropriate behavior” of a noticeable sort usually gets people fired, and contrary to what some people like to say on Yahoo!Answers, sexual shenanigans are only very rarely a part of any pilot’s or flight attendant’s career. It really doesn’t happen very often, and that’s the honest answer you asked for. On the other hand, as someone else mentioned, if you don’t trust your boyfriend, then it won’t matter what his career is. He could be a plumber or a turret-lathe operator, and he will still find someone to cheat with. You need to work out the trust issues independent of his career choices. Good luck!