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From one female to another: How do I get past my fear of commitment?

April 26, 2017advice commitment fear female past promises relationship

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From one female to another: How do I get past my fear of commitment?

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I think you just need to meet the right guy. In my personal experience, if you lower your standards of dating, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.Meaning that if you date losers, you are destined to keep dating losers. I am a hopeless romantic and I would always catch myself falling for bullshitters because they told me everything that I wanted to hear and I wanted so desperately to believe everything that they said to me.Well I finally started telling myself that I deserved better than that and broke up with my ex. A few weeks later I met a wonderful, caring and decent man who I am still in love with today. You probably have a fear of commitment because you have been hurt in the past and you are not the only one.You probably just need to break the cycle of the people that you are naturally drawn to.