Does sex emotionally attach you to somone forever, form a “connection”?
I lost my virginity with my first boyfriend in college. It was the antithesis of a connection. It was just bad sex between two people who haven’t thought of or seen each other in 3 years now. I barley knew him then, and now I can’t stand him. It is a big deal, losing your virginity, but it doesn’t bond you to that peson unless you already have a strong existing bond. We had nothing resembling a bond. The only sexual activity that is bonding is with someone who you love where the act of sex isn’t about sex as much as it is about sharing each other and intimacy, and expressing love. It may sound corny but its true. Trust me on this. I know first hadn that sex without love and a special emotionally bond is just sex, but sex with love and intimacy and real bond is something amazing and connects you like nothig else. So, basically, its whats in your heart and your head when you have sex with someone that bonds you, not the act itself.
