Does it mean i dont love myself just because i dont really think im pretty?
No i don’t think its a case of not loving yourself because of it. I will quote you. “I think i am funny, really smart, nice, caring and even sexy (i think you can be sensual without being pretty). I think im a good friend, good sister and i am a good girlfriend when i date. But i just do not think im pretty enough.” The simple fact is pretty isn’t really important when you put it against those attributes and if there are men who can’t see past the looks and enjoy all those other qualities then quite frankly they aren’t good enough for you not the other way round. Its good that you see a psychologist to help with your depression i’ve been there and it sucks and i think you are doing just fine, you do love yourself simply because you can recognise all your good qualities, try not to worry about your looks because you will find someone eventually that will fall for you because you are you and have all those great qualities and when that happens it won’t even cross your mind again.
