Does femdom destroy confidence of the guy whos slave and also impact his self esteem?
Actually, I think a guy with good self esteem is more likely to enjoy being sub- a man who is confident in his masculinity and sexuality will be okay with having the woman in charge. I am on equal terms with my boyfriend in most aspects of our relationship, however, sexually he is very much submissive. He is quiet, but he has a lot of faith in himself and he is actually quite assertive when he needs to be. He definitely has more self esteem than me, and the way our sexual relationship has developed hasn’t affected that at all. A good Domme will not bully or hurt her sub if that isn’t what he wants. She will know what he is comfortable with and what he is not happy about doing. She will communicate with him properly to make sure they both know the boundaries.
