Does being a mom means letting go of yourself?
I don’t think you should let go when you become a mom I think it just means you have another role to live by, it can alter some of your social life but it shouldn’t change you so much. I see some moms who has kids who let go of themselves they don’t take care of themselves they look ragged and old, think of your husband you also have a responsibility to him as a wife. I don’t think he want to go home to a wife who looked so haggard, having kids are tiring but don’t let go of your self plus so many guys use that as an excuse to cheat to there wife.