Does a doula replace the dad during childbirth?
Absolutely not! The father has a special, intimate attachment to the mother and baby that the doula will never have. A father’s presence alone is often a significant source of encouragement and support to the mother. A doula will work with the father, encouraging him to participate in the birth based on his and the mother’s comfort levels. Some fathers prefer a high level of involvement; others simply wish to hold the mother’s hand and offer verbal encouragement. As your doula, I will adapt my support based on your wishes and the father’s comfort level. I will work with the father, demonstrating comfort techniques and offering suggestions, to help him participate to the degree that he wishes.
