Do women have a sexual peak? Can they maintain the same level of pleasure (or increase it) throughout their lives?
I have, literally, seen women reach their “peak” at 30, then again at 40 and even at 75! Sex, thank God, is a human expression that we get to grow with throughout our lives. Sex as we age may not look like the cartoon versions of “hot sex” that we see in the movies (which are VERY unlikely to be satisfying for the woman as they too quick!), but sexual life can unfold and transform into affection, warmth, pleasure and spiritual connection that is just as exciting at 75 as it is at 35. It is very important not to hang on to rigid expectations of what sex has to look like to be “good”. How can men help women be happier in bed? I know this is cliché’d, but don’t rush! If you really feel this way, tell her how much you care about her, how attractive you find her, and how devoted you are to her enjoyment—nothing is more sexy! Women need to feel that they can open to and trust their partner, so be trustworthy. Be patient (and help!) as she explores her body and finds her pleasure. Having expe
