Do women get emotionally attached to the guy they lose their virginity to?
Not necessarily, it really depends on the woman. After I lost my virginity I felt no emotional attachment to the guy I had sex with and had no interest in even seeing him again. You could marry a virgin if that’s what you want to do. However, keep in mind a virgin is very sexually inexperienced and it will take time for you to develop a healthy sexual relationship. If you choose to start the sexual aspect of your relationship after marriage you risk having sexual incompatibilities that could lead to either an unhappy marriage or divorce. I would prefer an experienced man. It’s not that I discriminate against virgins, but for myself, I prefer not to have to do training before I’m actually sexually pleased, I would rather just go ahead and have sex.
Some do, some do not. I think it’s pretty important to remember that women are individuals, and not the Borg. On a serious and sympathetic note, emotional attachment is part of dating. You and the girl you lose your virginity to might not work out, and yes, it might break your heart. But heart break can happen no matter the sexual experience of either partner, and one might argue that it’s part of being human. So don’t worry so much about it. I think most people can attest to some kind of incredible painful parting of ways…it’s just the way it goes.
I became emotionally attached to the guy I’ve been dating before we had sex. I would love him with all my heart even if we didn’t have sex. I think losing your virginity to someone is a whole different level, so at some extent they would become emotionally attached to you in a way that everyone does to the person there having sex with whether there losing there virginity or not. You shouldn’t just go looking for a virgin because there are amazing girls out there that aren’t virgins and you wouldn’t want too miss out. whoever you have sex with you will most likely become emotionally attached. It’s normal…
