Do wives accept this crossdressing behavior?
Some do. Some don’t. The issue of spousal accommodation to cross dressing is as varied as are the couples in whose lives cross dressing becomes an issue. There are no formulae. Each person involved has to search self and consider much more than the prejudices and emotional flaring which commonly accompany disclosure of cross dressing. Remember spouses grow up subject to the same conditioning as do the cross dressers for whom this is a major problem. Cross dressing introduced into a marriage invariably requires rapid growth in terms of knowledge, self esteem, and security of the relationship, or the relationship is in dire threat of falling apart. It is a case of “grow or go” most of the time. “Tell your intended first, then work out the relationship before you get into a legally binding situation” is our advice. A good policy to follow is for a cross dresser to share cross dressing with a lady no later than the third or fourth date. Being rejected early never has hurt so badly as being
