Do u have a mom who makes her presence intolerable and makes life miserable?
My mom was that way, but understanding her mother was worse helped a little. Some people can’t show love because no one showed them love, like my mom, and others have Asperger’s Syndrome, and don’t know how to give or receive love. Hurting people, hurt people. The thing I have learned in life is that people that are hurting on other issues, tend to take it out on us, but the issue is not the real issue. This might explain it better. Narcissistic personality disorder is 85% alcoholics and/or drug addicts, 15% they believe are children who were raised by alcoholics or drug addicts, or just simply put down by someone when they were small children. Someone hurt them when they were little and made them feel small, and that is why they do it to other people. They have to put others down in order to make themselves feel bigger. (Not that that is an excuse.) They think they are God like, Saints, with grand egos, I call them destroyers, they just destroy people. In their mind they are right and
