Do husbands commonly get jealous of their wives attention given to the children?
myn does said that in the beginning it was just us then our first came along and he got a little less attention and “us time”, we have just had number three and well there is hardly any us time now, i think men just need to man up and talk to their wives about how they feel before any resentment grows
Yes, children and babies. What I would suggest you do is communicate this with your wife and tell her how you are feeling, and then the next step would be for the both of you to spend time with your children seperately, like pick a “play time” and a “play day” for you and your child and go out and “play” with your child that day, go to the park, mall, beach, whatever. If you are having a really hard time being jealous of your wife spending time with your child and not you then, I would suggest counseling, if you try to talk to your wife and it ends up in arguments, then counseling would be the best. There are also classes that you can take to learn how to spend time with your child and how to be a better father. Lots of fathers do this and they love the end result, they actually take their children to the classes with them and interact with other fathers, and in the end, it really helps out both father and child.