Did you get scared of getting old & being alone & settled 4 second best?
I’m not scared of being old and alone cause my kids will keep me occupied I’m sure — I do know my current boyfriend does not want to die alone and that’s a factor in the reason he’s dating me – I’m a little more comfortable being single than he is – I did settle for 2nd best once because I had physical problems and figured why not – big mistake – i’ll never do it again – BUT – people need to stop having artificial expectations and realize what’s important and think about what they can and can not put up with because nobody’s perfect – my boyfriend isn’t perfect but the little things that annoy me I find very tolerable and even “cute” – and he’s so very nice and wonderful that I easily overlook these – anyhow my boyfriend and i have only been together a year (I’m 43 he’s 58) — he had a heart attack before and they told him he only had 4 years to live if he didnt have surgery – he didnt have surgery – and it was like ten years ago this happened and he’s still alive – but i’m sure that
