Did anyone see the Tyras Black Womens State of Union?
Works both ways sweety. Blacks with natural hair dog girls with relaxers and weaves and say they want to be White. Not all females with straight hair want to be White, striaght hair is just easier to tame. Its different, Blacks going natural is still not as normal as it was in the 60s and 70s so yes you are going to get stares, just like people with facial tats. It is still unusual here, if you are that insecure about it, get a relaxer or move somewhere where it is a norm and relaxed hair is not. As for the people who talk about you, they know that you are sensitive and it gets to you, no one has anything to say about people with natural hair who do not seem to be affected. My roommate has natural hair (that is sort of what we consider nappy, the really tight curls that go straight to the scalp) no one says things to her because she embraces it. I prefer natural hair, and some men prefer it too. Your boyfriend was shallow, or he may have just wanted an excuse to break up with you. Date
