Dating tips: what if a date is agreed upon for Saturday but…?
Step up and let the guys know that you need to know definite where and when by whatever day is comfortable with you. If they feel you are being too inflexible or not spontaneous enough, let them know you are no longer a teenager with parents who support you, you have work, you have a life, you have chores and a lot of other things you fit into a week,.some of them can be rearranged but you need to know what the plan is so you can organize your schedule to not interfere with your date with him. And there is no law that say a woman ahs to wait around for a guy to call her with the whens & wheres. If something comes up on Monday that may interfere with a rendezvous you hope to have later that week, you can call the lucky guy and ask if he can pinpoint when & where because you have this other thing you don’t want interfering with your date (etc.). Any guy who starts to get upset or hurt ot feels his macho control is being threatened by your needing more advanced set dates probably isn’t th