Cold Feet: What do those pre-wedding jitters really mean?
Cold Feet — pre-wedding jitters — bridal nerves. Call it what you what you will, most brides and grooms are nervous before a wedding. If you’re feeling cold feet, try to relax and explore your feelings. Figuring out what’s behind them will either lead you to a stronger and healthier marriage or save you from making a giant mistake. Either way, the time to deal with cold feet is now. The Difference Between Cold Feet and Serious Problems: A general sense of nervousness about a wedding is normal after all it’s a life-altering step that you’re taking. If you’re feeling nervous and yet still excited, it’s probably just the pre-wedding jitters. Serious Problems that Should Cause you to Call Off the Wedding • If you’ve discovered that your future spouse has a drug or alcohol problem and is not in recovery • If your future spouse has been violent towards you • If either one of you has been unfaithful or deceitful • If thinking about the wedding has given you feelings of dread rather than hap