Cancer male and Gemini female – can the three of us get along in a menage a tois?
I think you don’t get a long with her because you might take everything she says personally. She’s not out to hurt you, she’s smart so you should listen to her instead of being defensive 😉 Bottom line is; the Gemini female just wants to get along and the Cancer male makes it difficult by not understanding her or thinking she is attacking him. I know, I’m a Gemini and married to a Cancerian. In that kind of a relationship, one person has to change to adapt and the Cancerian cannot achieve that because one needs to approach the relationship intellectually (not emotionally) to come to that resolution. http://astrology.about.com/…/GeminiCancer.htm So, I (gemini female) might find it easier to suck it up and change a few things about myself instead of him being hurt that he is doing something wrong. He will be more likely to feel overwhelmed and think he is horrible at everyth
