Can the suspition of lies and secrets from the husband kill the desire to have sex?
Yes it can, lies and secrets can, but you can make yourself to only think positive things about him and force yourself first to have sex, then relax, and accept and it might bring some healing to you and answers to him that forgiveness, and acceptance by you of giving sexual pleasure to him, will meet his emoitonal needs and he might be accontable to you, and start being faithful to you knowing, that you are not a door mat, but you will not accept this kind of behavior from him. I hope you don’t get mad to this response, but it does helps if you are in a situation, and you still love him and don’t want to lose him. You take care of yourself really, emotional, and healing from this experineces that your facing!
