Can sex addicts ever be cured?
One problem with sexual addiction recovery is defining the recovery. A drug addict is recovered if he is not doing any drugs. This is not the case with the sex addict – who will still be engaging in some sexual activities. A better definition of recovery (or cure) may be in defining the “healthiness” of the sexual activities as they relate to the partner in the relationship. As is the case with other types of addicts, some sex addicts may never be “cured.” They may achieve a state of recovery that will continue to require a lifelong, day by day recovery plan. Any 12-step program will teach the addict to take one day at a time and provide accountability for the present. Many sex addicts who commit to recovery, come totally “clean” in admitting their acts, work on individual and partner counseling, join a 12-step group and make recovery a lifelong effort will be “cured.” Part of their recovery will be in learning a new intimacy and fulfillment with their partner relationship.
