Can physical chastisement cure bad habits?
Personally, I find all spanking erotic. The more serious it feels when I am being spanked, the more erotic it feels afterwards. Although, since being in a TIH relationship, I have found that it is possible to be spanked in such a way that during I only feel pain, nevertheless, the after-effect is arousal. Indeed, I can’t really imagine it having a beneficial effect on me if I didn’t ultimately find it arousing. I don’t really believe that you can cure bad habits by spanking. You have to want to change the habit enough to do it. I honestly don’t think that you can use spanking as some kind of aversion therapy. Fear of punishment does not seem to me a good reason for doing or not doing anything, especially not in my case, since fear is an emotion that tends to arouse defiance rather than submission in me. I used to be afraid of my husband when he lost his temper and shouted at me, but it never made me feel submissive, it just made me hate him. I try to obey my husband (with mixed success
