Can PAIRS be taught to us in private sessions instead of in a group?
Yes, much of it can be. However, it is much more expensive to do so and it is not possible to duplicate the power of the group in private sessions. One suggestion is to try a short program with the group before making the decision to invest in the long course privately. You may find you are very comfortable in the PAIRS programs. The group provides energy and a safe atmosphere for taking risks and trying new behaviors. It shows participants that other people are really more similar than different. It shows participants that the work of relationships is hard, but do-able. It helps people experience empathy and feel the “Oh, it’s not just me and my partner . . .” who have issues.
