Can one person alone save a marriage?
By John Kuypers As a relationship coach, author and speaker, I often hear divorced people explain that their marriage couldnt be saved. They say, My spouse was unwilling to change and therefore what choice did I have? I did everything I could but he/she wouldnt budge so something had to give! With the divorce rate in Canada at more than 40% of all marriages, we must ask ourselves, What can we do to stem the tidal wave of divorce? With the emotional, spiritual and financial wreckage caused by divorce, this question bears serious reflection by every married man and woman. One choice is the awareness that one partner alone can save a marriage, transforming it from a deep despair to a love that will last till death do you part. I myself am living proof of this miracle. Having been divorced once, my second wife left me twice in the first three years of our marriage. Miraculously, she came back both times, freely and willingly. When she left, I wanted to do everything in my power to save my
