Can “Love at First Sight” be real?
Though you may be attracted to someone at first sight, the attraction should not be mistaken for love. That strange feeling in the pit of your stomach indicates chemistry, not commitment. The chemistry or attraction can grow into love, but it takes time and care. It involves truly getting to know a person– their mind, their character, their heart. What is Infatuation? Infatuation is the state of being “blindly in love.” When you only base a relationship on the physical attributes of another person or on the immediate chemistry you may share, you don’t see them for who they are –good or bad. Infatuation is a feeling that usually starts fast: a guy sees a girl, they get that intense first glance happening, and the attraction in communicated mutually. What a flattering thing when someone of the opposite sex finds you attractive. This intensity is often mistaken for real love, but it is not. Feelings are like the weather; they change from day to day, sometimes from hour to hour. You may
