Can i have a healthy pregnancy after 3 miscarriages?
Yes, you can have a healthy pregnancy. Do you have an RE? If not you need to ask your OB to refer you to one, after 3 miscarriages they are supposed to refer you to an RE. I have had three miscarriages and one stillbirth before I had surgery to resect my uterus. I am currently 7 weeks pregnant, I know that is still early but my chances of carrying a pregnancy to term have gone from 0% to the normal 85%. I also am a member of online support forum for multiple miscarriages. This website is awesome, here is the link: http://boards.babycenter.com/n/pfx/forum… I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know there are so many different emotions going through your head right now. You need to get plenty of rest, and it wouldn’t help to pamper yourself.
I have had two previous miscarriages and have went on to have a third healthy pregnancy (currently 38 weeks) so it is not impossible to have a healthy pregnancy after miscarriages. Also, your feelings are very normal and i felt the same way after i suffered miscarriages (such as thinking – how come she can get pregnant so easily and i cant) and these feelings are very natural. What I would suggest however is that you have your health investigated, as sometimes women can develop conditions during pregnancy that can affect her pregnancies, so i suggest you ask your doctor for some blood tests. I only found out last week that i had a tendency to develop a condition during pregnancy that affected my pregnancy and i just wished i had insisted on having testing so that i could have known how to have had a more healthy pregnancy (thankfully my baby appears to be healthy).
You may be surprised to have a reply from a man, but here goes. My wife and I had our first baby as easy as pie, but after that she had three miscarriages and numerous ‘spontaneous abortions’ (her gynaecologist’s term). Then she went into hospital for a routine D and C, and after that she conceived again and we had another baby – nine years after the first. You WILL be all right, but you have to keep on at the appropriate medical people. Believe me, there are many of us out here who know how you feel, and you are certainly not being silly. We understand. Bless you.
