Can any relationship not built on friendship stand the test of time?
Often we guys encounter what feels like a gaping hole: the craving to have companionship that goes beyond calling someone a friend. We know God created this desire in us because He said, “It is not good that man should be alone” (Genesis 2:18). But we also have to recognize that timing is important. If we try to force a relationship with a girl before getting to know her well, we are asking for unnecessary pain and difficulties. In contrast, waiting for God’s timing and putting friendship first allows us to enjoy His blessings to the utmost. So we need to know how to get to know girls without aiming for a full-blown romantic relationship. Think about it this way. When all is said and done, you are going to be married to only one person. That means you will ultimately be maintaining one romantic relationship: the one you’ll share with your wife. Regardless of how many friendships you develop before that time, you can only carry one through into marriage. Knowing this, is it logical to p
