Can a teetotaler and a drinker live in marital harmony?
If your wife’s drinking is causing problems and you are a recovering alcoholic then it wont work , even if you never had a drink problem it’s still wont work unless you are willing to live with someone that drinks to much.. I’m sorry to be so blunt about this…but I lived with that sort of problem and believe me it will only get worse. It is putting you in a terrible situation so you need to look at it for what it is. The fact you have asked this question makes it appear that you are quite aware there is a problem with alcohol in the home.