Can a suicidal person mask their depression with happiness?
We know that many people suffering from depression can hide their feelings, appearing to be happy. But, can a person who is contemplating suicide feign happiness? Yes, they can. But, most of the time a suicidal person will give clues as to how desperate he/she is feeling. They may be subtle clues, though, and that’s why knowing what to watch for is critical. A person may “hint” that he/she is thinking about suicide. For example, they may say something like, “Everyone would be better off without me.” Or, “It doesn’t matter. I won’t be around much longer anyway.” We need to “key into” phrases like those instead of dismissing them as just talk. It is estimated that 80% of people who died of suicide mentioned it to a friend or relative before dying. Other danger signs are having a preoccupation with death, losing interest in things one cares about, giving things away, having a lot of “accidents” recently, or engaging in risk-taking behavior like speeding or reckless driving, or general car
