Came out of abusive relationship, met nice man, how do I keep the negative thoughts away?
A female age 26-29, anonymous writes: Ok, this is going to sound a bit silly to some people I am sure…but I need some advice… I have recently come out of an abusive 4 year relationship – I had 2 children with my ex. He moved out to be single and wanted me to wait for him to decide whether he wanted me but I couldn’t take it when he started smoking cannabis – I am very anti drugs. It has been a painful split – I feel like it was my fault that I couldn’t make him care about us and that I’ve let my children down by not keeping the family together. Anyway, completely unexpectedly I met someone else recently…he is the complete opposite of my ex – in fact he seems too good to be true…which is the problem! I’m just waiting for it all to go wrong! I’m not being too keen – I always wait for him to text 1st, but our time together seems to go so well I’m just waiting for him to never text me again 🙁 Please help me! I’m driving myself crazy with my thoughts 🙁 All I want is to be happy –