Are women not interested in short, petite men?
I too was horrified by TimTypeZed’s post. It was largely the horror of recognition. Fifteen years ago (and most of my life up until that point), I WAS TimTypeZed. There are too tough issues here that we’re avoiding. I suspect we’re avoiding them because they are tough. We’ve established here that height need not be an impediment to having a relationship. But one’s feelings about oneself (lack of confidence, etc.) can be a hurdle. The sad fact is that knowing this truth isn’t a solution (though one MUST know it to begin to find the solution). The solution is to change one’s feelings, and that is hard to do. For most of us, feeling aren’t overtly controllable. So how DO you become more confident? There’s no quick prescription. And there’s no one-size-fits-all prescription. Some people need therapy. Some people need to focus on non-dating activities (becoming really good at their job or hobby). Some people need to age a little. Some people need all-of-the-above. Some people need to get to
