Are there any statistics on the success of marriges when a couple divorces and re-marries?
I live in northeast Florida and every couple of years my newspaper puts out an article about this and its not a high number. I myself have done this. I married in 1989, divorced in 1998 and remarried same guy in 2004, all the while during the divorce we lived together, we have a son born in 1994. I think the best think I have been able to tell people about this was that we were divorcing for resentment and issues that we let go and didnt resolve, immediately, then when we were divorced we remained civil to one another and lived together because neither one of us could afford to go out on their own but we were mature enough to realize that we brought a child in this world that didnt deserve to be caught in the middle of a long drawn out battle or two nasty, angry people. We made lots of compromises, we did date but didnt bring anyone home, nothing came to fuition with others and we took care of the child on a fair level, taking turns and helping each other with things, still and splitti
