Are there any Freemasons here?
It isn’t against freemasonry rules to tell someone you are a freemason. They have many rules regarding conduct, and what is secret and what is not. Merely being a freemason does not exclude you from telling other people that you are. I used to work with a guy who had been a freemason, and was nice enough to show me the handshake. My dear lady friend’s dad is also an ex freemason and quite open about it, i keep asking him to show me the handshake, but always refuses. Other open freemasons include my uncle, my ex girlfriends dad and some of his mates.