Are overweight people attracted to in-shape and skinny people?
I am overweight, but haven’t been my whole like. I am not attracted to overweight guys. Not now, not ever. In shape men are the best. I am working to get in shape so that they actually find me attractive too seeings how most in shape guys don’t find overweight girls attractive. I am attracted to them because of chemical reactions in the brain? I honestly have no clue what makes me attracted to one person vs the other. All I know is I want an in shape guy? Why? It shows he’s healthy and into eating healthy, not a bunch of junk. It shows that he takes care of himself an has self control. Those are attractive qualities to me, but I don’t know if that has anything to do with why I am physically attracted to them. Granted I am only mildly over weight, dunno if that factors it in too, but yeah.