Are failing relationships repairable?
OK, you have a lot of questions all mushed up together in here. 1. Yes, you can repair your relationships. 2. You go to the people in question, and you tell them that you were confused and you were trying to push them away, even though you didn’t really want to. You tell them now that you have nearly lost them, you realize how much they matter to you, and you want to do whatever it takes so that you don’t lose them. 3. How do you stop thinking badly of yourself and change. You would really benefit from therapy. If for some reason you can’t or don’t want to do therapy, get the book Self Parenting. It can help you get in touch with your inner dialogue and change it.
