Are Children the Main Reason for Divorce?
Children are very rarely the cause for a divorce. Unfortunately they are usually used as weapons by the warring parents against each other. Children are wrongly brought into this world by parents who hope thatthe children will help them get closer to each other but this never works because the stress f parenting only exacerbates the relationship between the two parents and that leads to divorce.
I was thinking exactly what Carrie said. Kids are never the cause for divorce in a home where both are mature and want to be parenting partners. However, there may be a parent who is so self centered and involved that they do not want to share attention; even with their own children. They may, in fact leave to find someone without the natural and expected distractions caused by kids. Is it any wonder when kids hear arguing in connection with their names, that they would think it is somehow them and not the “big whiny child” who is at fault. They would complain about a job or pet or friends who took away from their total “me, me, me” all of the time. It does not mean that they love their kids less, only that they do not know how to put another person before themselves. And they may leave to find that person who will not have any of the distractions to take attention away from them, but that is their problem and not the kids. No, No, No, kids are not to blame ever, it is the immaturity o
