Are alters really separate personalities?
First of all, most multiples really dislike the term “alter” because they do feel that the members of their group are distinct and separate people. Professionals use the term “alter” specifically to emphasize that these selves are nonpersons. It’s better to refer to members of a group as people or selves, unless the group you are talking to specifically tells you what they want to be called. Please ask if you are not sure.
If they experience themselves as distinct individuals, then they should be treated with the respect that that is what they are. Always treat the persons in a multiple group as separate people unless they tell you otherwise. Note: most multiples really dislike the term “alter” because they do feel that the members of their group are distinct and separate people. Professionals use the term “alter” specifically to emphasize that these selves are nonpersons. It’s better to refer to members of a group as people or selves, unless the group you are talking to specifically tells you what they want to be called. Please ask if you are not sure.
