Any advice for someone who may be caught up in a similar long grueling divorce?
Yes, first of all the court system is a very frustrating, time consuming entity. Try not to let it get to you – it doesn’t help. 1. Get an attorney you can connect with. Don’t be afraid to switch attorneys if you aren’t happy with your first . . . or second . . . or third pick. 2. Do your homework. Your attorney is there to guide you through the process, but it’s really up to you to defend yourself. Get your ammunition, your back up documents, your evidence, and your game plan in order. It will save you time and money and make your attorney’s job easier. 3. Drop the emotions. I know it can be tough, but try to keep your emotions in check. Provide only the facts and provide as much back up documentation as possible. The courts base their decisions on the facts of the case, not on the emotions. 4. Restraining Orders are your friends. When my sister obtained a restraining order against her husband, it was the first time in years that she could sleep in peace and wake up in the morning wit
