Am i too inocent about doing things with my boyfriend?
I know your probs going to hear this alot but dont do anything you dont feel comfortable with. I mean I got close to a few guys before I lost my virginity but it didnt feel right to go further than a kiss with any of them. My first everything (apart from kiss) was with the same guy cos it felt right at the time. I’d say just go with the flow. Maybe get some tips from mags like cosmopolitan or similar and then next time you get passionate with him, if it feels right to go further then let it happen, if not then dont. It sounds like your boyfriend is trying to do the right thing by leaving it up to you, but dont let anyone put pressure on you to do anything. As for telling his mates, I dont know about that. I mean I think all guys talk about stuff like that with their mates to a certain extent but we rarely get to know what! So I guess us girls are kind of in the dark as far as that goes! Good luck though!
