Am i the only parent who is disappointed with their children?
O.K. You didn`t learn,trough all this time(while you were child)that parents are chronicly dissatisfied with their children?What ever they do,it`s just not good enough…O,you can do it better…It`s not you,we all just try to forget that we always were trying to impress our parents,but we had our own world,with our own rules,where parents just don`t fit.Thats becouse parents look at the mirrow and see what they pass,and want something better for their child…And in some moments parents forget that they were just the same,and were doing just the same,like their child…Disappointment comes when you see that your child goes the same way like you….But we all have to find out on our own…Don`t be like that,yor child will find something to make you proud,sooner or latter…Maybe he`s trying,but it`s all going at wrong way…Life is full of mistakes…if we make none,how will we learn…Even mistakes with parents…
Don’t start blaming yourself completely until you understand what it is that disappoints you about them, and was it avoidable. Sometimes we are disappointed because we have imagined the way in which their lives should go and often mis read individual thinking. Try to look at what they do really well and focus on that instead. However you are not alone, many parents will prattle on about how brilliant their children are but forget to mention that they can be little sods to control behind closed doors. A lot of first time mother would never like to admit that they have thought about leaving their children in supermarkets because it will look like they have failed as a parent. I commend you for coming out and saying you feel disappointed but now you need to work on how to turn it around.
if you think you are disappointed by your children try looking at the positives that they do and achieve try not to look at all the negatives beeive you and me we have been there but since we have changed the way we are with our kids, things are getting better, dont pull yourself down take advice and get support because deep in your heart you cant be feeling dissapointed 24/7
