Am i afraid of marriage…or is it a deeper problem?
Yes, you should be afraid of marriage because the divorce rate is so high. You are right. You are young and the guys you mention are pretty bad experiences. Don’t marry anyone who doesn’t feel right. Take your time. Finish college if you haven’t already. Expand socially. Take time to know someone before dating them – observe them first in various social situation. Be friends first. If they are bossy and controlling – run!! Don’t live with them. Don’t put them on title to your house. Some guys will marry just to get your house or half your house. Be very careful. Seek your parent’s and minister’s advice. Joy to you!