Am i a loser if my high school friends do not bother to keep in contact with me.?
It sounds tome like you and your high school friends are moving in different directions. College is a big step. You and also your friends are all busy trying to work out who you are and how you fit in to campus life. Judging by this and some of your other questions I wonder if you are finding it all a bit overwhelming at the moment and are trying to hang on to things that remind you of the past – a place and time that you felt secure. Instead of worrying about college, embrace it. College is a wonderful opportunity to meet new people and try things. Consider joining a club or study group. You mention that you have made new friends – you are obviously a likeable person who can make friends. Just enjoy the moment and don’t worry about the past – or who you’re going to hang out with tomorrow.