Im ginger, have freckles and hardly any self confidence will i ever find anyone for me?
Of course you will. Why do you think that being ginger and having freckles are anything to do with anything? Ginger is gorgeous and freckles will make you look younger (and when you are older that is such a GOOD thing!!) If your have ‘hardly any’ confidence this is likely to be the bigger issue as confidence is a very attractive feature and the more you have of that the better (within reason). The good news is that you get to chose to be more confident! Think of all the things you have done so far (even the little ones) all the people that love you for being you (family included). Then get out and do new things and meet new people – most folk are terribly flattered if you listen and are interested in them. And remember to smile! If you force yourself to think of something nice, then you smile about it then you feel happier and an added side effect is that you cant help feeling more confident when you are happy. Try to think of positive things even when the other stuff is getting you do
Okay, this sounds a little harsh, but true story. A girl I know had bright ginger hair and freckles. Her face was just plain ugly. I really don’t mean to sound a *****, ’cause she’s actually a really nice girl, but she just was, ugly. Oh and not because of her ginger hair or freckles (I actually think both can look good on someone), it ws just her features. So eventually she managed to at least fake some confidence. Started wearing nice clothes, a bit of make-up, dyed her hair (and I’m not saying you need to do this.. this just helped her gain confidence in herself!). Anyway before she got no attention from guys, but now she actually does. She’s had a bf for 6 months. So you don’t need to change yourself, you just need to find a way to gain your confidence. Again, I’m sorry for being so brutal about the girl .. I’m really not that horrible and she is a lovely girl lol.
Having freckles and red hair doesn’t make you ugly. You do have to work on your self confidence though. If you don’t have any then usually the wrong kind of guys will go after you. The most attractive thing about any person is how to carry themselves not how they look. Once you start thinking and feeling you are a worth while person then others will also.
