my kids aged 5 and 3 fight all the time?
Two of my brothers were like this as children. Siblings are in a very combative situation, and they’ve both found they get lots of your attention when they attack each other. They may also be happy with the situation between them. Does either of them seem distressed or like the underdog? From your question it seems like they’re both participants in the fights. Maybe they’re not going to stop until they’re ready. You need a strategy to deal with that. (You may also need earplugs and the hide of a rhino.) Do they have lots of activity and outside play? Children who are indoors most of the time have no outlet for their energy and can become aggressive. If they don’t, you need to try and schedule time every day for a family walk, or a visit to a playground, if you don’t have a yard. Buy some simple toys like bats and balls, a frisbee and a skipping rope, and make sure they get used every day. Do they play with other children? Maybe they’re just bored with each other. You could allow them t
