What is Enabling?
Enabling is the process of making it easier for an individual to abuse alcohol or drugs. Parents, family members, and spouses often do this unwittingly by protecting their loved ones from the consequences of their behaviors. Examples of enabling include making excuses to school or employers, protecting them from legal consequences, blaming their friends, and allowing underage drinking or drug use in the home. Most addicts will not seek help until they experience consequences to their health, school, jobs or family.