The Loss of an animal companion?
The Loss of an animal companion whether due to death, being lost or stolen, or placement in a new home may be one of the most devastating and painful experiences we ever face. For many such a loss is as traumatic as losing a family member or a dear friend and can trigger an intense grieving process. Grieving for a loved animal is a natural and normal reaction and will vary from person to person. Shock, denial, and feeling of anger and guilt are frequently felt upon learning our pet is terminally ill, injured, or dead; these feelings may last minutes to weeks or even years later as we work through our feelings and begin to rediscover and reconnect with life. As time passes, we can focus more on fond memories and less on the pain of the separation. We may experience all, some, or none of the above reactions and the timing and intensity of these feelings vary among individuals. It is important to acknowledge our feelings, whatever they may be, and give ourselves permission to grieve.