What is Surrogacy in EBE?
There is a phase in EBE called surrogacy where the core disconnect/core unworthiness part is accessed and there is too little HOH to be with the part in a way that helps it digest how reality was unsafe for it. So the facilitator and the client invite the subpersona of the person to choose someone who will be the surrogate parent for a length of time for that part. This makes it possible for the part to be able to have a new experience of childhood. It usually lasts for a few weeks with meetings and phone calls, with the surrogate parent and part (the client dropping in to the part when with the surrogate parent), which then gives the HOH of the client the room to relate to the part in this new way too. The time is takes for the client to actually be ready for surrogacy depends on their willingness to go through the detoxing of major life medications (usually around the 1-2 year mark). These medications are always the means or fuel in which the Strategic Self holds its false ego bounda
